Recipe for dating success

There are 3 key elements for dating success   MINDSET   Without being in the right headspace for dating, you WILL get stuck. You will ride the rollercoaster and you will be begging it to stop so you can get off. How do you know you're in the wrong headspace?...

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But Sally, I didn’t do that and I found my soulmate?

"But Sally, I didn't do that and I found my soulmate?" Yes. And there will always be exceptions to 'rules'. "But Sally I slept with my husband on the first date... and now we're happily married and have 3 wonderful kids!" Fantastic! So what you're saying is you want...

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Warning… soul-exposing post ahead

You want to know something about me? I struggle at 'sales'. I mean when it comes down to it. I SUCK AT IT.   That may be a surprise to some, but it's the truth... I've been successful despite myself. Honestly.   You see, I'm terrible at communicating my...

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Shit dating advice…

I know they mean well.   I really do.   But for goodness sakes please do not let anyone else close to you tell you these horrible lies.   Here are the TOP 3 WORST pieces of dating advice ever:   1) "When you stop looking you'll find him/her."...

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What should you look for in a partner?

I understand that: - You love your business and you're alllll about it - You want someone who 'gets' what you do and why - You want someone who loves and appreciates the same things you do - You want a dog/cat lover like you - You want someone who appreciates deep pan...

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The ugly truth

This week I had to hurt my friend.... she cried. I didn't want to do it... and I almost cried after because I felt that I was the one who made her cry.   This week I had to tell the ugly truth. AND IT SUCKED. And honestly, I'm ok with it... even though it's hard....

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True love sits with you in the fire, holding your hand

— Sally Kathryn